Breathe...
I think right now it's just best if we all seperate and take our own little time outs. Everyone needs a little time to breathe and have some room every now and then. We owe that to ourselves at least. There are times when you just need to be apart and cool down a little. Otherwise you will just find yourself getting more upset and frustrated and what does that do?
There are times I find things pointless because the other person will just continue arguing and you both end up crashing your horns together and falling down in the dirt...or drowning in the pool of each of your arguments and stubborness.
So let's just all breathe together, go into our own little corners and away from each other. Me personally I'm going to continue listening to some relaxing and collective music....http://www.playlist.com/playlist/19056328459 (my little playist, helps me relax a bit)
But this is no relationship for us, we can't keep acting like we're related if you keep going on like this. We can't keep basing our relationship on funny little side comments and inside jokes. Being a sister is more than that, it's being able to share in-depth conversations and asking each other for advice and trusting each other. Quite frankly, at this point I can't do any of that. You accuse me of not having my thoughts or ideas, you deny me my right to express how I feel because it's not at your standards or you don't want to hear it, or even the fact that you insist that it's not my input and it's too similar to someone else's. Stop doing that! I have my own thoughts, feelings, ideas...I don't like when people under-estimate me like that. I may be a bit slower in math and maybe I'm not the most intelligent person but I am my own person and you should accept that. Don't deny the fact that you do under-estimate me, because you do. Maybe this can all change in the future, but at this moment I don't see it working out. I will continue to be opptimistic about the future and I put all trust and faith in God, but I'm not too optimistic about any of this right now.
Again, let's all breathe in.....and breathe out. Let's all get through this as best as we can.
Does wisdom perhaps appear on the earth as a raven which is inspired by the smell of carrion?
Friedrich Nietzsche
By three methods we may learn wisdom: First, by reflection, which is noblest; Second, by imitation, which is easiest; and third by experience, which is the bitterest.
Confucius
Anger and intolerance are the enemies of correct understanding.
Mohandas Gandhi
Anger is a killing thing: it kills the man who angers, for each rage leaves him less than he had been before - it takes something from him.
Louis L'Amour
Anger is a wind which blows out the lamp of the mind.
Robert Green Ingersoll
Anger, if not restrained, is frequently more hurtful to us than the injury that provokes it.
Lucius Annaeus Seneca
He who angers you conquers you.
Elizabeth Kenny
All the art of living lies in a fine mingling of letting go and holding on.
Henry Ellis
Love does not begin and end the way we seem to think it does. Love is a battle, love is a war; love is a growing up.
James A. Baldwin
There are times I find things pointless because the other person will just continue arguing and you both end up crashing your horns together and falling down in the dirt...or drowning in the pool of each of your arguments and stubborness.
So let's just all breathe together, go into our own little corners and away from each other. Me personally I'm going to continue listening to some relaxing and collective music....http://www.playlist.com/playlist/19056328459 (my little playist, helps me relax a bit)
But this is no relationship for us, we can't keep acting like we're related if you keep going on like this. We can't keep basing our relationship on funny little side comments and inside jokes. Being a sister is more than that, it's being able to share in-depth conversations and asking each other for advice and trusting each other. Quite frankly, at this point I can't do any of that. You accuse me of not having my thoughts or ideas, you deny me my right to express how I feel because it's not at your standards or you don't want to hear it, or even the fact that you insist that it's not my input and it's too similar to someone else's. Stop doing that! I have my own thoughts, feelings, ideas...I don't like when people under-estimate me like that. I may be a bit slower in math and maybe I'm not the most intelligent person but I am my own person and you should accept that. Don't deny the fact that you do under-estimate me, because you do. Maybe this can all change in the future, but at this moment I don't see it working out. I will continue to be opptimistic about the future and I put all trust and faith in God, but I'm not too optimistic about any of this right now.
Again, let's all breathe in.....and breathe out. Let's all get through this as best as we can.
Does wisdom perhaps appear on the earth as a raven which is inspired by the smell of carrion?
Friedrich Nietzsche
By three methods we may learn wisdom: First, by reflection, which is noblest; Second, by imitation, which is easiest; and third by experience, which is the bitterest.
Confucius
Anger and intolerance are the enemies of correct understanding.
Mohandas Gandhi
Anger is a killing thing: it kills the man who angers, for each rage leaves him less than he had been before - it takes something from him.
Louis L'Amour
Anger is a wind which blows out the lamp of the mind.
Robert Green Ingersoll
Anger, if not restrained, is frequently more hurtful to us than the injury that provokes it.
Lucius Annaeus Seneca
He who angers you conquers you.
Elizabeth Kenny
All the art of living lies in a fine mingling of letting go and holding on.
Henry Ellis
Love does not begin and end the way we seem to think it does. Love is a battle, love is a war; love is a growing up.
James A. Baldwin
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