Are you trying to change me?
You know you can't change a person, so why bother trying. Is it because you can't change your past or find yourself able to change who you are or what you've done, so you find this absolute need to try and change someone else? I don't know, I guess there are many reasons or only one. But people have to change at their own pace, in their own time. Don't rush the process. Chances are you won't get what you're trying to achieve.
Regardless, a person is who they are, that's fact. In a relationship, if you try to change that other person, the relationship just won't work out. It won't. In time they'll see what you're trying to do and eventually have enough.
And you can't beat who someone is, out of them. They'll end of being beaten, bruised, marked, and ruined. While you will just end up unsatisfied and feeling that was pointless. So why bothered?
Again, let that person change in their own time at their own pace.
Everyone changes, sometimes for the better and sometimes for worst. The only decision you can find yourself making, is whether you can still be around that person at the end of the day, and if you can handle and appreciate who they are, or who they've become. Can you? That's for you to decide.
What else can I say? Maybe there's plenty more you can say, feel free to say it, to express yourself. Maybe you agree, or maybe you disagree. All I ask is that you do it respectfully. Regardless say what you will, these are only my thoughts and my feelings. They're not wrong, nor or they right. They're opinions, everyone has them. Are yours similar or are they different?....You tell me.
Regardless, a person is who they are, that's fact. In a relationship, if you try to change that other person, the relationship just won't work out. It won't. In time they'll see what you're trying to do and eventually have enough.
And you can't beat who someone is, out of them. They'll end of being beaten, bruised, marked, and ruined. While you will just end up unsatisfied and feeling that was pointless. So why bothered?
Again, let that person change in their own time at their own pace.
Everyone changes, sometimes for the better and sometimes for worst. The only decision you can find yourself making, is whether you can still be around that person at the end of the day, and if you can handle and appreciate who they are, or who they've become. Can you? That's for you to decide.
What else can I say? Maybe there's plenty more you can say, feel free to say it, to express yourself. Maybe you agree, or maybe you disagree. All I ask is that you do it respectfully. Regardless say what you will, these are only my thoughts and my feelings. They're not wrong, nor or they right. They're opinions, everyone has them. Are yours similar or are they different?....You tell me.
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